Thanks for the replies everyone,they have been a big help.
I have been doing alot of reading on the different brands of machines suggested here and think the Brother SE400 recommended by thesergeant will work nicely and fits my budget. Plus all reviews look positive.
As for having to have a computer connected to embroider this shouldn't be a problem as she has a laptop running windows 7 and a desktop running windows xp and if those wont work I have a laptop she could use running windows vista
As for the software needed to make your own embroidery designs from pictures,drawings,etc... I see a few on Amazon but not sure if any will do what I mention. This is all over my head.
Could someone take a peek at these and comment?
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00DYZPGIY/ref=mp_s_a_1_9?qid=1378764706&sr=8-9π=AC_SX110_SY165
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B006L7KYUM/ref=mp_s_a_1_10?qid=1378764706&sr=8-10π=AC_SX110_SY165
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B003YVI914/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?qid=1378764706&sr=8-2π=AC_SX110_SY165
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B004KSV34K/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?qid=1378764706&sr=8-4π=AC_SX110_SY165
Also on the Brother SE400 I am assuming if you want to embroider bigger then 4x4 you can buy another larger hoop?
Could you also embroider hats as well? I already have a project for her in mind,lol.
Thanks again for the help guys I really appreciate it