I just joined this forum to defend a friend. You seam to have mistook what he was trying to tell you. I am in this business, it is legitimate marketing. The forum sites that people like I use are not sites like this. We use consumer sites. If any of you watch TV it happens every time a commercial comes on. Chevy is telling you they are better than Toyota, Ford is telling you they have the toughest truck on the market. One soup company tells you their soup is healthier than their competitor. This is the marketing world, there is not a place you go were marketing is not happening. Bus stops, taxi cabs, MSN, Yahoo, radio, movie theaters and on and on and on.
When I go to a forum site of consumers it is my job to nudge people to a product. I am not badmouthing the competition, but I may say I looked at some purse and thought it was very well made, but then I found this one. No bad words no cutting down. A consumer must make up their own mind what they want to do, but if they don't know the option is there they will never look at it. Hunter and Oklahoma leather are 2 big corporations in this country that are still successful. They are in every major sporting goods store or sporting goods web site. Many of those consumers would love to have a hand crafted holster, but they don't take the time or they just don't know how to find someone that hand crafts an item. Go out to a SASS or Cowboy shooter forum some time and read posts. These people are consumers, they are not crafters. They consume goods use them then go out and talk about them. They talk about why they like or dislike a product. They talk about their loyalty to a product. All I do is slip in a comment. ((I was looking on letherworker.net and found a guy who seams to make great holsters, his signon name is ????)) The seed is planted, then you watch to see if it grows. Most of the time people are so curious they can't help but take a look. That is called marketing. Yes there are people that go out and badmouth products to get attention, I won't work with that type and neither does my friend.
Also you ran off someone that wanted to help and had a reason. His great uncle was a well known saddle maker in the 30's and 40's. Made saddles for Roy Rogers, Gabby Hayes and other famous silver screen stars. Something went terribly wrong in his business, I don't know the entire story. I do no that he died absolutely broke living in some rat hole out west. His family didn't know because he cut off communications to the family. So my friend was on a mission to help people trying to make it in this business. His post was his passion coming out, he wasn't trying to destroy your community.