@chrisash, I thought long and hard as whether I should post a reply, partly because we have hijacked a thread about a sewing machine to discuss the aftermath of Brexit. I know I first mentioned the topic, so I am partly to blame. In the end I decided to do so because it is rare to find a discussion on this topic conducted in a civil manner; the exchanges all too easily descend into preaching from one point of view or the other with opinion masquerading as fact.
I agree the people of the UK were never given the opportunity to vote for the treaty of Maastricht, but that was down to whom? The UK government saw fit not to put it to the vote, and I don’t remember there being anywhere near as much noise made about it as the noise we heard over leaving the EU.
You wrote “The brits have complained about the EU ever since and have always wanted the government to be sovereign powers”; surely you meant “Some of the brits have complained about the EU ever since and have always wanted the government to be sovereign powers”.
Undeniably the damage done to relations between the UK and the current members of the EU is massive, but as Bob pointed out, the UK decided to leave the EU not the other way around, for good or bad reasons depending on one’s viewpoint. I am reminded of the old French proverb “Comme on fait son lit, on le trouve”.
Any trading nation not in the EU has either to negotiate a specific trade deal with the EU or be subject to generic WTO rules, that is not the EU being inflexible as you put it, they are just following well defined and established procedures. Why would it be any different for the UK. The UK spent almost all of its years in the common market, and subsequent EU, trying to negotiate preferential arrangements, and good for them if they obtained them. However, it is now a bitter pill to swallow that this negotiating stance has been lost and the UK is to be treated as any other non-EU trading nation, a position about which the EU has always been clear, on the lead up to the UK referendum and in its wake. If you interpret that as the EU being inflexible, then that is your outlook, but I don’t see any legitimacy in taking umbrage any more than I could accept the claim the UK is being inflexible in expecting the transposition of previously negotiated preferential arrangements. These are negotiating stances, hard as they might be, but why would you expect any different positioning from either side.
I would welcome some development of your remark about the so called remainer’s where you say they “have now seen they have not lost much”. I am inferring a conclusive statement; you did not write, for example, “now are seeing...”. Organisations like Bloomberg (among others) have analysed the situation as recently as June of this year and are seeing trends that do not substantiate your remark. At the same time, there is open admission by the same analysts that things are still very unclear, partly due to the fog created by the COVID situation. Under any circumstances, I do not see how one can draw the conclusion you made.