I received an order of Hermann Oak recently, but it seems pretty stiff for 5-6 oz. leather and the flesh side is like fine-grit sandpaper (instead of shaggy rough). I'm certain I could sand furniture with it. I have limited experience with leather, though, and this is the first time I've ordered veg tan, so I am wondering whether it is normal or if I got a less than stellar piece. I've put some mink oil paste on a couple of small swatches, but the jury is still out as to whether it will soften it much. Advice?