Thanks so much for the advice... I'll look into some of the ideas you mentioned!
I already have access to the adult section but its incredibly quiet!
As for your ** i tend to agree in part, however , it also appears often that those not in the know, or havent been smacked upside the head hard enough by tjose who do Know! Have the opinion that its all about hurting women... if youre doin it right... it absolutely is not.
Also, i have 8 current orders on my work bench, 5 are for men.... to be used for them, the things on my bench for women... bracelets so i guess its a just a matter of perspective.
Thanks really again for the welcome, i do appreciate it!
Sometimes i do struggle a bit with the way things are explained, maybe my brain just thinks in a different direction than a guy's lol