Reaching for Help & Praying for Solace

[Saddlebag]

By now you should have knocked on 10 doors. And when you get home, phone your wife and see if you can help her with anything, dishes, the kids, whatever. Don't go there to beg her to take you back, don't even mention it. And have the good graces to leave after a few hours without a word about reconciliation. Right now she needs some breathing room and you have to respect that. It's the shortest route to reconciliation.

[mulefool]

Well I think it's a good sign you were able to take in some of that "tough love" and not get your back up. Good luck on working things out.

[RustyMelton]

Thank you to everyone for their support. I hate being the dull bulb of the forum but I needed to hear some of the things that everyone said. I have to say though, the one that sticks out is Saddlebags post, you are right, i wasn't paying attention, I didn't look for work hard enough etc etc, the unfortunate thing is as humans we all make make monstrous mistakes sometimes. And through my marriage im sure I made plenty of them but, now that the frying pan has hit me over the head I'm more aware now than ever. Sucks that way sometimes that it takes a big slap in the face to wake your ass up to life. INTERVIEW TODAY, EVERYONE CROSS YOUR FINGERS AND SAY A PRAYER FOR ME !

Hi JustWakinUp, I'm not very good at advice but I know where you're coming from, I've been there myself. I think if you aproach your wife with the honesty you had in your last post it'll be a good step in the right direction. I'm prayin for you and your family. Good luck in you interview.