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Hi everyone need some help on this . I customize bikes and paint and fab and do all my own wrenching and leatherworker (still learning) When i visit this site i really feel like a novice . I dont want to sound like a egomaniac but i like to do everything myself. Well every time i come up with a paint scheme or a fab idea i got a bud that will go do it before i do . ( i know why tell him ) the only thing i have one up on him is my leather that drives him crazy when people react. Hes the same as me when wanting to do everything himself i can respect that !....but he likes to take my ideas alot !! and then his buds think i copy him. We only been friends about a year or so but seen him at bike shows for a while. So he ask me to take a look at a seat pan and what he wanted on it, but wants me to show him how to do everything he wants to do it. Now i know we want to keep the tradition going but im the only one that does this around here and i've biult a small bizz just started doing motorcycle seats for a well known bike builder, but my names not out there im still behind the scene . I learned the hard way on my own i had wanted a Paul Coxs seat but knew i wouldnt be able to afford one. thats when i decided to give it a try and got the bug ! Then found you guys. My question is do i just teach him what i worked so hard to accomplish I really feel like im being selfish but i know he going to take it and run with it ! Man i've even lost sleep over this sounds crazy but i dont want to be a ass and not do it, but with the paint schemes and other stuff it drives me to disbelieve that he cant be more self creative . I know i'll be teaching my future competitor ! is that wrong ? Any advise well be appreciated thank you !

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Buy him a basic leatherworking kit for Christmas (or just to get him off your butt), and encourage him to figure it out. Tell him everyone learns differently, and you don't want to teach him your(snicker) bad habits. Then start distancing yourself from this guy.

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I have had the same experience..If you teach him exactly what he wants to know......

That Snake will Bite you in the A**.........

I spent 2 days teaching a guy how to do some leather work....Then what was said

"Look what a "guy" in showed me what to do". and i do have a Name....

Luke

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Simple - get a new bud and stop hanging with boneheads ;0) If he isn't giving credit where credit is due, when people look at his work based on YOUR ideas, then he's disrespecting - as above, distance is good ;0)

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There comes a point where you need to look someone in the eye and say, "Look, I'm glad you like my work, and it's flattering that you want to copy it, but if you don't knock it off, I'm gonna kick your..."

I like the lucky 7 tool set for Xmas idea. Tell him: Good luck with that, dude! hahahahaha

Johanna

 

 

You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus. - Mark Twain

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I also like the idea of the lucky 7 set. Also, tell him that if he wants to learn, he should become a member of this site, ask questions, post photos, and learn the same way you did. Tell him to buy leatherworking videos and books. Make him waste a 55 gallon barrel of leather like we all have, learning by our screwups.

Just a question... have you told him how you feel about him stealing your ideas? Maybe you need to tell him in no uncertain terms to STOP DOING IT!

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Just a question... have you told him how you feel about him stealing your ideas? Maybe you need to tell him in no uncertain terms to STOP DOING IT!

Exactly. If you haven't complained to him that you don't like it and want it to stop, he is interpereting your silence as approval. If you have expressed yourself directly to him, then it's war, because he doesn't respect you at all.

~J

 

 

You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus. - Mark Twain

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Webster said the word friend means HE HUME I INVITE TO IMPOSE ON ME..............univite NOTA FRIEND, ''MY FRIEND "'..........and get some sleep......been there done that.........DOC............ P.S.  I SIGN AND DATE MY BUCKLES. FOOD FOR THOUGHT.............

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Hi everyone thanks for your opinions you said what i was thinking. Thought i might of been dissed for not wanting to teach him. I knew everybody has heard " how do you do that i would like to learn " Then your in that awkward moment yea Hilly i never have told him how i feel ,he has a way of coming back over and tells me whats hes going to do like he forgot where he heard it from . I think he's told so many people he forgot whos idea it was or is convinced it was his ! CRAZY drives me up a wall . So one day he told me about a rag he gets so i pull it up on the site and bingo there is his latest creation so that tells me he has no creativity . Luke & Mcjeep you guys are so right when credit isnt given when credit is due ! I guess i have to learn to stop being a nice guy when my 6th sence is kicking in. And Timd PERFECT the beginner kit and just in time! and with Christmas right around the corner AWESOME !And Terrahyd thanks for the words of wisdom .And Johanna i think your right on theres a time and its over do . Your not going to believe this i just now as im typing he calls me, asked me where i got my engraver WOW WOW still cant believe this, nows hes going to engrave his aluminum parts on his bike LIKE I TOLD HIM I WAS DOING and have done some already . And engrving is not my invention but what i was going to engrave is. See this has been a 4 yr project because i want it done the way i want it i have my everyday rider so i can take my time plus (money) but now he has used every idea i have told him so Mcjeep your so right i need to stop hanging with this bonehead.I've been covering up my bikes when he comes over now i gotta start getting in his head start f****** with him thanks everybody were on the same track that makes me feel more welcome in here ! Thanks again Raleigh

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