Thank you both for your insight. I do have a few extra questions. I have looked around for the answers but
1. Stitching before dying/antique doesn't discolor the thread? I have no idea, I haven't stitched anything like that yet.
2. To oil the belt, cover it in gum tragacanth/atom wax/ or neatsfoot doesn't effect the antiquing? Which is best for this without making the leather darker? Should I wait a few hours until the oil is dry before antiquing or is it safe to do it immediately after.
3. Is there a website or book I could find that details the steps? I have Belts Galore by Al Stohlman, but he doesn't cover that.
Thank you again, for your help - this is frustrating!