Single Man, Wanted

[Aika]

Moderator can delete this post if they want, it seems men here are too shy or already deeply married. I am off. thanks everyone who participated.

[fredk]

bye-bye

[Martyn]

I guess some fun is FUN. Isn't this getting a little out of hand?

Cute? I am not so sure. Doesn't this belong on a Dating Site?

ferg

Well said. It was making me cringe on page 1.

[Ferg]

Old and smart. Anyone taking you serious has more of a problem than just looking for a "Tart". LOl

ferg

[Aika]

Old and smart. Anyone taking you serious has more of a problem than just looking for a "Tart". LOl

ferg

What a man... and you also my friend on FB... I will go to delete you.

[Aika]

Let me explain myself, so I hope it would eliminate some funny comments.

I am 37 y.o., I was married, widowed, I have two big children, and I am good looking, in fact I am very good looking even in my workshop scruffy cloth and apron. I have university degree, speak several languages, worked 15 years in oil and gas, have no immigration problems, and pay my bills myself, my leatherwork craft is highly sell-able. I have no problem with finding men in real life at all... in other words I am not desperate for a man who is the leather-worker. But Mr "the only one" is only one and I would love him to be "think alike" or at least have same interests, just like my parents who are both engineers and designers, when I look at them I understand they don't need friends or a company, because they are perfect company for work, for life and fun,they are like strings of guitar who are tuned into same melody, I admire them.

For old men - nova days people do meet over internet, it is normal as it was in your days to meet someone in pub. Internet is like a big pub or a street, where people say hello to each other more openly.

My friend(same age as me) in Kazakhstan met her future British husband over Facebook, for over one year they were visiting each other, sending messages, exchanging presents... next week is their wedding, I wish them all the best, because they are two nice people who were brave enough to meet each other over Internet.

Edited March 15, 2016 by Aika

[Martyn]

So you're hoping to meet your soul mate on the internet by telling people you're pretty and a good cook and then behaving like a 14 year old girl in a sweet shop?

Get a grip.

Ferg wasn't insulting you by the way, he was pointing out that the only man who is likely to show interest in this, is someone with problems looking for a tart. If that is what you are looking for, you are going about it the right way.

[Aika]

So you're hoping to meet your soul mate on the internet by telling people you're pretty and a good cook and then behaving like a 14 year old girl in a sweet shop?

Get a grip.

Ferg wasn't insulting you by the way, he was pointing out that the only man who is likely to show interest in this, is someone with problems looking for a tart. If that is what you are looking for, you are going about it the right way.

This topic is turning in "lets lecture her on how to date men" ) I dont really noticed what ferg said, neither found anything insulting,I only noticed that you are too snoby to me? not sure if right word. if you don't take me serious I wont whip and cry, I take you easy ;-) yet you are trying to convince me how wrong I am advertising myself here... I just want to be happy, like all singles in my age.

if you didn't notice irony in my words about cooking and being pretty sorry not my fault, it was an irony about men, most of you look for good cook and attractive outlook, non of you think what is she like when you see boobs ))))) Anyway, right man comes in right time, I believe in it.. probably it is not my time... at least not on this forum, and my mr the only one will be found somewhere else, and he won't be a leatherworker.

[Martyn]

Well it sounds like you've had your share of hardship and I genuinely wish you good luck in your search. If you want the advice of someone who's been happily married for 25 years, forget about making little baby leatherworkers, go socialise and meet some real people - and don't forget your sense of humour - it'll serve you well long after your behind has succumbed to the inevitability of gravity and cream cakes.

Edited March 15, 2016 by Martyn

[Aika]

Well it sounds like you've had your share of hardship and I genuinely wish you good luck in your search. If you want the advice of someone who's been happily married for 25 years, forget about making little baby leatherworkers, go socialise and meet some real people - and don't forget your sense of humour - it'll serve you well long after your behind has succumbed to the inevitability of gravity and cream cakes.

Reading this I only can think I could be married now for 19 years already if only my 1st husband would still be around... and I would probably take my happy marriage for granted and give away to single people simple advices about "go socialise and meet some real people" and think how smart I am.... oh people...