Hi JK,
You could also look into ZACKS http://zackwhite.com or http://springfieldleather.com
but stick with the oil base as the water base will come off with sweet or other water.
there is a post here some where (could not find it) that tells the difference in the types of finishes but if you go to the DYES, ANTIQUES, STAINS, GLUES, WAXES, FINISHES and check out what others are doing---there is about as many ways to do finishes as there are post on this sight, good reading, good info.