Things are not Good

[Stewart]

On 7/4/2022 at 11:10 AM, suzelle said:

Stewart,

Thanks for sharing your situation with us. Hospice is the best, I'm glad Lois is in their care. I just wanted you to know that seeing your handiwork here has been a blessing. May blessings be returned to you and Lois in abundance! Keep creating beautiful things when you can, I'm sure it's a comfort for you and good to keep your hands and your mind busy. Hang in there Friend!

Thank you.Hospice is the best for careing for termial patients. It will be a while on the leather. I kind of need to find the floor and top of tables from visting her for the last month.

[Stewart]

On 7/4/2022 at 11:39 AM, chuck123wapati said:

i am sorry to hear also and wish you all the best. All i can do is say a prayer for you and yours! God bless you friend.

Thank You,They were appreciated. Now he has here to deal with.Do belive that extra angels are needed..

On 7/4/2022 at 11:37 AM, tsunkasapa said:

I'm sorry to hear this. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

Thank you for your kind words,

 

[Stewart]

22 hours ago, PastorBob said:

Praying for you and Lois.  Unfortunately we don't have an infinite time in these bodies.  But while we have them we can definitely be a blessing to those whom we have contact.  You will now be surrounded by an entirely new group of folks where you and Lois can bless them with your presence and kind words.  Life IS ever changing.  There will be bouts of happiness and pain, but JOY is something to hold onto.

Yes we are alotted so much .The last 37 years has been a roller coaster ride,Good and bad. but fun also.

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[PastorBob]

My condolences, Stewart.  May God comfort you!!

[Stewart]

1 minute ago, PastorBob said:

My condolences, Stewart.  May God comfort you!!

thank you PastorBob.

[Matt S]

@Stewart I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure that your support, strength and love were a huge comfort to her over the time when your lives ran together and especially when your paths started to diverge. As Gus McCrae says life is short for us all, shorter for some than others. Hopefully you can rejoice that you had the time with Lois that you did.

Nothing I can say or do will make things easier for you or your family but I find during stressful or difficult times I find it can help to talk with people, especially people outside of your regular or immediate circle. Being honest about your thoughts (whether you think them "fair" or "mean") in a way that you might not be able to do with people who were fortunate enough to have known your wife. It can help to crystalise them for you and find a positive direction. If you feel the need to blow off steam to a semi-anonymous person please feel free to PM me. That offer applies to anyone on this forum going through difficult times, not just you.

[billybopp]

Sorry to hear @Stewart.  Losing someone is never easy.  My thoughts are with you.

- Bill

[Sheilajeanne]

My sincere condolences, Stewart!  I know how hard it is - lost my father, my husband, then my mother, all within a 10 month period. Talking does help, for sure, and if you need grief counselling, don't be afraid to reach out to an organization that provides it. That's what I had to do eventually, as some of the people I thought I could count on turned their backs on me. 

[tsunkasapa]

I am very sorry to hear this. It is never easy to lose a loved one. Hold on to the bright moments.

[Stewart]

On 7/6/2022 at 7:45 AM, Matt S said:

@Stewart I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure that your support, strength and love were a huge comfort to her over the time when your lives ran together and especially when your paths started to diverge. As Gus McCrae says life is short for us all, shorter for some than others. Hopefully you can rejoice that you had the time with Lois that you did.

Nothing I can say or do will make things easier for you or your family but I find during stressful or difficult times I find it can help to talk with people, especially people outside of your regular or immediate circle. Being honest about your thoughts (whether you think them "fair" or "mean") in a way that you might not be able to do with people who were fortunate enough to have known your wife. It can help to crystalise them for you and find a positive direction. If you feel the need to blow off steam to a semi-anonymous person please feel free to PM me. That offer applies to anyone on this forum going through difficult times, not just you.

Thank you for offering support. i have a support group in my realtives. t seems that  am providing support for them and that helps with my issues.