I need to clarify -- I am not looking for a jeweler to make this item for me. I will be doing it myself...what I need is information and guidance from those familiar with the processes I'll use (dapping being the primary one) to make this item on my own...by myself.
I've already tried going the "custom jewelry" route and it was an absolute disaster -- I won't be doing that again...probably ever... (It seems that what really happens is they ask you what you want, you give them a very detailed drawing outlining EXACTLY what you want it to look like, the size, etc. and then they come back with some sort of horse #### that you wouldn't pay $2.00 for and they want to charge you $300 PLUS MATERIALS to make it...I am just not going to go through that headache anymore...I'm tired of it and I won't do it.)
...in fact, with any luck, I will get good enough at it to put a dent in those people's businesses (the ones that want to do what they want to do and couldn't care less what the CUSTOMER actually wants...THOSE jewelers... )
Finally, I would like to note that when my parents went to have custom jewelry made, their jewelers actually LISTENED to what they wanted and made the pieces exactly as they wanted them. I don't know what in the heck has gotten into the jewelers I've talked to here lately, but it's irritating how arrogant and uncooperative they are. Maybe they are better elsewhere, but...I'm not paying any $300 plus materials to make something that should cost $50 at most (along with me supplying my own materials).