Ok, let me whip this out and put paid to my part in the mess.
I made the same mistake asking for a pattern from someone, anyone. And someone gave me advise on how to make my own. And I appreciated to no end. Now when I want to make something I start with a sketch and work my way to creating my own patterns one or two people have asked me for a copy. Kind of helped me to take this craft more serious and increased my passion, enjoyment and pride.
Yes I was helping the guy the same way I was given help. Dose that make me an ass for helping a guy learn to fish?
I hope not.
True I may not have liked the edge I seemed to hear in the post but there have been a few times when I was given help when didn't deserve it but sorely needed it.
On all forums there is a... culture, a way of speaking and interacting. For an outsider or newbie it can take a while to get to know (and I'm sure even after all this time I know I run a foul of the way here.) walking through an interaction may be better than flaming. You know flies, honey and all that.
So I'm sorry if I stepped out of line. But nice is kind of my default.