Cheryl,
I know this is a little off subject, but one issue to consider is if you are not selling because you are overpriced or if your product is overpriced for the quality of the product. It sounds as if you had the purse priced competitively, so look at your work with a critical eye. It was hard to make or I don't know how are not of concern to those buying your stuff. They care that it is pretty and they like it enough to give you money for it. All handmade work needs to excede the quality of store work or there is no reason to pay extra for handmade. People at shows and your friends will tell you they like your work. Ask someone who hates you, a 13 year old kid (who has yet to learn social grace) or a total randome stranger who does not know you are the maker if they like the work. You will get an hoest critique that way. Then, LISTEN TO THEM! Do not tell them why they are wrong, learn where you can change and improve.
Aaron